I'm not sure how helpful this video is. The message I get from this video is 'don't sulk if you lose to a man otherwise he won't want to play you again'. In my experience, technically weak male players compensate through strength - when playing against these sorts of players I have to really focus on the quality of my shots. When it comes off I get a great sense of satisfaction but losing to someone who just wacks the ball as hard as they can just winds me up.
Maybe I'm lucky but I've never had any issues with getting games from guys at my club - I'm saddened to hear about Laura's experience as a young girl. I wonder how much that was down to male ego.